Women Have Eyes Too, Bro: The Sexual Attraction Factor
One thing that you’ll really have to work on in order to attract women, is to think about your sexual attraction factor. In other words, how sexy do women perceive you to be? You don’t have to look like Brad Pitt or like Ryan Gosling to be sexy. You will need to be able to take the looks and the personality that you have and make them work for you. You have to have what the guys refer to as ‘swagger’. You’ve got to have confidence in yourself, your manhood, and your ability to present yourself as a ‘hot ticket’.
No woman wants a guy who seems clueless, nervous, or self-loathing. No girl wants to date someone who she views as being like a brother. You can forget about being with a woman who views you like a substitute for her best girlfriend. You don’t have to go around acting like a jerk or a jock, but you need to present yourself as someone who any woman could see herself getting weak in the knees for. Here are some aspects to consider when you are thinking about how to attract the opposite sex.
As mentioned earlier, you don’t need to look like Hollywood heart-throb in order to attract women. However, it wouldn’t hurt for you to perform some personal housekeeping on yourself. For example, when’s the last time that you took a long and honest look in the mirror. Do you like what you see? When’s the last time you’ve updated your haircut? Do you even get your hair cut on a regular basis? Are you even bothering to wash your hair?
Does your skin look pasty and weak, or is your skin complexion full of color and life? Do you manage to work out a few times a week? Did you know that you can put the color back into your skin and firm up by jogging, running, or biking a few times a week? You don’t have to train for a triathlon, but even a little bit of exercise is better than nothing. Not only will you realize health benefits, but your clothes will fit better on your body.
Speaking of clothes, I know you hate shopping. But, what condition are your clothes in? Would it kill you to hit the mall every now and then? Even if you’re a tee shirt and jeans guy, you could at least make sure that your tee shirt and jeans are modern, and in good shape. And for crying out loud, please realize that wearing jeans that are coated with grime, dirt, or with food smudges is gross. Grimy clothes make women feel the opposite of attraction for you.
You could probably think of lots of areas that you either need to polish up or overhaul physically. The point is that women want to be on the arms of a guy who makes her feel tingly and turned on. It’s up to you to figure out how to transform yourself into this type of guy.
Why Is A Physical Personal Inventory Necessary?
You might have heard that women aren’t shallow. They care about what’s inside of a guy’s heart. This is true, but how is a woman going to find out what’s inside of your heart if she can’t get past what you look like outside? Imagine that you placed a diamond inside of a box. Now, imagine that you wrapped that box in a grimy old newspaper. Now, imagine presenting a grimy-covered box to your special woman. She’ll probably look at you as if you’ve lost your mind!
Now, imagine that someone else puts a crackerjack ring inside of a box. Now, imagine that box is covered in the most beautiful gift wrapping, tied with a silky bow. When a woman gets presented with this box, she’ll go crazy with pleasure.
The point is that presentation means a lot. The way that you present a gift symbolizes how much thought you’ve placed in your gift and your gift recipient. The way that you present yourself to women shows her how you feel about yourself, and about how you want for her to be attracted to you.