Raise Your Social Standing
Yeah, sure, money can help you increase your social status and attraction level with the opposite sex. The keyword here is “help”… if you’re anything like the way I used to be, it was easy to make that an excuse for your lack of success in your dating life. I am going to teach you proven tricks to attract women like a RICH, POWERFUL man.
How to Attract Women with Social Status
What is it about rich and powerful men that make them attractive to women?
Money is the easy answer, but what if you don’t have buckets of money in your life?
The answer is status.
Put, women are attracted to guys who have high status. A lot of people will automatically assume that this means you must be loaded or famous for having high status.
I think anyone can agree that being rich or famous is one way to help gain high status, and it is not the only way to accomplish this effect. So if you and I are not wealthy or famous, what can we do?
High status means more than just your bank account. There are many different levels of state. For example, here are a few different types of situation that ANYONE can attain.
***High Social Status
***Status within specific SITUATIONS
What does this mean? Sure, having a private island or multiple movies roles will help you have high social status or higher status within a specific situation, what can you do if you don’t have a zillion dollars or your TV show?
Think about it for a moment…
What can somebody like you do to get a higher status?
There are loads of stuff you can do. Number one is LEADING the situation.
I can’t emphasize this enough, don’t ever be the guy who falls into the situation of, “What do you want to do tonight?”
“I dunno, what do you wanna do?”
High status means taking charge. High-status men are not scared to make a decision and lead the pack. It doesn’t mean being a jerk; this means moving things along. If somebody thinks of a cool idea, rally everyone behind it. Be the leader, don’t be the follower.
Make sure you switch venues and move around to different spots within a venue. If I’m hanging out with a woman at a venue, often, I’ll move to the other side of the room.
“Let’s check out what’s going on over here!” It’s as easy as that.
What else can you do?
Know what’s going on. Make sure you know about the secrets in your neighborhood. Are there cool ghost stories? What’s the best new ice cream store? Why is it the best? Every night of the week, what’s the best bar or club? Don’t forget to make sure you know why. What is a fun story about a time you hung out there? Local gossip or scandals?
What am I getting at?
You don’t need to be productive, incredibly good looking, or famous to know what’s going on in your town.
Think about this, what’s more attractive?
The man who has no idea what to do, what he’s done, or what’s happening?
Or the guy who has several ideas of awesome things to do on any day or night of the week? He also has a story to share about the last time he did it and/or is happy to share his excitement about the next time he’s going.
On any given day or night of the week, I like to know what’s going on. Where I’m from on the second Tuesday of every month, there is an event called The Artwalk. It cost NOTHING, and it’s tons of fun. There’s a whole bunch of cool art galleries, free wine, and all kinds of killer food vendors.
If I’m talking with a woman and she’s been there before, we can share the excitement and stories we have about it. If she hasn’t, I can hype up how fun it is and demand she checks it out with me.
On Saturdays, there is a cool farmers market I like to go to in my neighborhood, and they serve the best coffee I’ve ever had.
On Sundays, there’s a club I like that serves free vodka drinks from 9-10:30.
On Mondays, there’s a place I like that has an unbelievable happy hour special of drinks for $3 and tacos for $1. It’s a nice place with a busy and fun environment.
There is a local mansion that has been turned into a city park that not many people know about. Basically, the man that was responsible for bringing electricity to my city donated his estate to the city and turned it into a really cool park up in the hills. It’s a great place with great views, great history and it cost NOTHING.
Barely anyone knows about it; even if they do, they don’t know the entire story behind it. There was major scandal/murder that happened in the ’20s at this park, point being, it’s always a cool story to share.
These are just a few of many things that happen/are happening in my town, and there are stories attached to every night of the week at every place that I can share anytime.
Things like this are happening, no matter where you live. Find out what’s going on, what’s happened, and talk about your experiences there.
A high-status man is GIVING VALUE rather than taking value. This doesn’t mean he’s handing out $100 dollar bills to everyone he sees. I mean, he gives a fun, engaging, and rich experience with women when he hangs out with them. Women are able to let go and have fun at the moment, no pressure, no labels, no expectations — just a solid, good time.
Now let’s discuss the next rule.
Always hype of everything.
Everything you do is amazing, everywhere is the coolest place. Status is like exact laughter and the flu, it’s contagious.
If you start cracking up, most of the time, other people will start laughing too. If you are super excited and having fun because of whatever is happening, it will almost always rub off on her too.
It’s an amazing time because you are a HIGH-STATUS MAN that is having fun.
Think about this. Within any situation you find yourself in, ask yourself, “Who has the most status here and why?”
A great simple formula is this. Women are attracted to men who have MORE status then they have.
If she’s the one who’s leading the situation, making all the plans, and everyone is hanging on her every word…. what do you think that means?
It means you are the one TAKING value and not giving value. It means she’s the one WORKING in order to entertain you. That sucks. It means she is NOT going to be attracted to you.
Be the man and take charge of the situation.
Women love nothing more than getting caught up “in the moment” with a guy. Things “just happen” you’ll often hear as a woman tells a story.
To make things happen, have her get lost in the moment of a high-status man…. YOU.
Think about your status and what I’ve talked about today. Ask yourself, “What can I do RIGHT NOW to raise my status?”
Best of luck out there!