How To Look Busy: The Ultimate Tool
I personally think the looking busy in the eyes of a woman is the ultimate secret tool. Having other stuff to do apart from focusing on her makes her want you more. As I mentioned in a previous article, the most satisfying scores are the ones you have to work for. I’ve rarely heard a guy say, “Wow, that easy lay was the best thing EVER!”
Women are the same way. They know that they can get guys to do their bidding most of the time – because most guys are weak and supplicate way too quickly.
The men they end up liking are those that pay them a marginal amount of attention … hence the importance of being busy.
Here’s a short list of items that show you have a “busy life” when dating online.
Being Busy Rule #1: Never Answer When She Calls
This is especially applicable after you’ve already talked to her once or twice – unless you’re figuring out the logistics of meeting up. It’s pretty simple. When she calls you, don’t answer. Have her leave a voicemail and call her back 30-45 minutes later.
Being Busy Rule #2: Wait 15 Mins Before Answering SMS
NEVER answer SMS messages/emails immediately. Nothing screams desperate, like being too available for this type of communication. Instead of having long-winded conversations over text messages, text her saying, “I’m with my nephew/puppy/brother/sister right now. I’ll call you back as soon as I can.” Wait 2 hours and call her back.
Being Busy Rule #3: IM Blocking Tactics
You should never be too available on IM. If you’re online all the time, you come off as not having an actual life. Now, I’m not suggesting you quit the internet. All you have to do is BLOCK her after conversations and UNBLOCK her when you want to talk to her online.
Also – I’d recommend never spending more than twenty or 30 minutes on IM with her any given session. End things with a swift “I have to head out to a thing – talk to you tomorrow?”.
Being Busy Rule #4: Reschedule A Date At Least Once
This is probably the best tactic in the “being busy” section. When you’ve agreed on a time for your first date, wait an hour – then call her back saying you totally forgot a birthday/event/ thing that was happening on the day of the date – and setup a different time.
Follow these simple rules, and I guarantee that she’ll be more interested in meeting you as a result!