How To Get A Girl To Like You Even If You Think She’s Out Your League


If you want to know how to get a girl to like you there are many things you can do. Most women that are in a relationship will tell you that they didn’t even romantically see their boyfriend in the beginning.

Well, what’s the secret these guys are doing to make girls that may not even had taken a double look at them in the beginning end up being their girlfriend?

You see, unlike men, girls don’t determine if they are attracted to a guy by only his physical appearance. Well, some girls do. But the ones that you want to get to like you probably don’t see you as your type in the first place so you are going to have to rely on more than your physical appearance.

Don’t get me wrong, it is important to always look and feel good because that’s what all girls like. However, it is much more to it than physical appearance when it comes to most girls.

Check out these 5 tips on how to get a girl to like

Disqualify Her

What do I mean by this? Simple, make her feel like she doesn’t have the qualities you’re looking for in a girl. Make her feel like you’re not that interested in her or she’s not worthy enough for you.

How can you do that you may be thinking? Just treat her like she’s just another girl and there’s nothing special about her. This is especially true if you want a really hot girl to like you because she’s probably used to every guy kissing the ground she walks on, buying her drinks at the bar, or hitting on her constantly.

When you switch things up they’ll become more interested in you because you treat them differently. Girls love a challenge so when you can play a little “Hard To Get” she’ll go crazy for you. Do things like putting her in the friend zone before she does it to you. You can put her in the friend zone by saying something like “Sarah I look at you as a little sister”, or “I really think you’re a great friend”.

Make Her Compete

Make her compete with other girls for your attention by saying something like “I’m about to go talk to the other girls across the room because they seem more interesting”. Saying things like this will completely flip the script on her and make her want you BAD.

I’m not saying to treat girls like complete trash, just treat them like they’re just another average girl even if they are one of the prettiest girls you’ve ever laid eyes on.

Let Her See Other Girls Like Talking To You

Make her see you are having interesting looking conversations with other females and eventually she will start saying things like “Who was that you were talking to? I look way better than her”. This is how you’ll know she is starting to like you because she’s trying to prove to you she qualifies as your type.

It’s a simple formula that always works, especially with hot girls. Just act as if you’re not really interested and they’ll begin to wonder why and then work to gain your interest because every other guy likes her, why not you.

Using Confidence to Make Her Want You

At the end of the day, the main difference between a guy that gets girls to like them and the guy that fails at getting girls to even notice him is confidence. When you show confidence through the way you walk, talk, and carry yourself you’ll make more girls attracted to you and want to get to know you more.

Most of the confident men out there that get girls to like him don’t try to do any elaborate or crazy schemes to please her. Instead, he makes the girl try to gain his approval and if he isn’t really feeling her he moves on to the next one.

When you desperately begin pursuing a girl you’ll come off as insecure and get rejected in the end. So if you want to get a girl to like you don’t give her compliments every-time you see her, don’t agree with everything you hear her say, and don’t do special things for her unless you feel like she has earned it.

Touch Her

If you want a girl to like you more than just a friend then you’re going to have to touch her. Touching a girl in certain ways will help her develop deep feelings for you she won’t be able to deny. The more reasons you find to touch her the more comfortable she’ll begin to get around you and put her guard down.

Find any reason to touch the girl you are attracted to by moving her hair out of her face when you talk to her, loosely hold her by her waist as you let her pass through the door you’re holding for her, calmly removing something from her face (even if there is nothing really there). Girls will develop a deep connection with you subconsciously when you touch them gently.

Build Sexual Tension With Her

When you’re trying to get a girl to like you one of the most effective things you can do is build sexual tension between the two of you. The best way to accomplish this is to tease her a little. When you tease a girl in the right way she’ll feel like you’re really really into her without looking like you’re desperate for her.

The key to good teasing is to be very playful with her. Joke about things like what she is wearing or how she is wearing her hair and see how she responds. The more you successfully do this the more sexual tension you’ll build and before long you’ll have her being playful with you and wanting to be around you more.

Look for Signs

This is a huge one. You have to be able to tell if a woman is really starting to like you or not. If the girl you like gets turned on by something you say or do you need to able to quickly realize it and act upon it.

When you start seeing her watching you from a distance, making eye contact with you, or becoming more ‘touchy-feely’ then you have succeeded on making her like you and it is time to make your move.

If you’re trying to figure out how to get a girl to like you it all starts with confidence. From there you can use these tips outlined here to get the girl you like to chase you and not the other way around. Just make her feel comfortable when she’s around you, read her body language, and look for signs that she’s starting to like you so you can know when to bust your move.